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Innovation, Disruption and the future of ACEs prevention

 

We come from the point of view that ACEs is an epidemic, a major public health crisis that most lawmakers, new media and the public would prefer not to hear about. 

To wake people up we need major disruptions to business as usual.

First, we need to start seeing email invites to rallies in front of city halls, county offices, and state houses, websites that demand real action, YouTube videos sharing stories around the emotional costs of trauma, new coalitions meeting weekly, and a linking of like-minded activists asking for local government, foundations, and nonprofits to fund and commit to data-driven, comprehensive, systemic, long-term ACEs prevention work.

Second, the work inside agencies need make some dramatic course corrections. Cutting through the bureaucratic dysfunction, activities would align with the mission (for a change). Helping kids is something we can all agree on, but ending ACEs is the way to do that. This would translate into the implementation of evidence-based strategies, within all family-serving government agencies, to produce measurable and meaningful results. Reforms would be guaranteed by in-your-face unrelenting activism at city meetings, town halls and online.

Most importantly, local systems of safety, care and family empowerment (meaning behavioral health care, medical care, safe shelter, early childhood learning programs, mentor programs, transport to service) would kick into gear to protect all our children with a special focus on those who live on the other less-resourced side of town.

If we are collaborative, we will see meaningful progress.

Within a few years, dots representing new ACEs prevention projects would light up a map on your tablet, a proud documentation of the national ACEs Prevention Network working in coordination with a robust mental health care network and revitalized child welfare system.

We have much work to do. I am inspired by the famous quote of anthropologist Margaret Mead, "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has."

 
 

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Gail -

You are so, so right. This work can be exhausting in the face of so much negativity. Demoralizing in the face of so much trauma we see β€” seemingly promoted β€” on the part of some entities. This work can be sad as we track more assaults on freedoms and rights. For those reasons and more, you are absolutely right. We must, above all else, be kind and loving toward ourselves and each other. Children need to see this. Pregnant women and young mothers need to see this, and do this, and feel support from friends and community.

Right now this online community of support and kindness, love, truth, and relationships, formed around the common objectives of eliminating trauma, healing from trauma, and building resilience, is desperately needed by so many people suffering as the result of trauma. We are all affected. The illnesses and second-hand trauma caused by premature deaths, depression, addictions, β€œacting out behaviors”  such as overeating, cutting, gambling, shopping, thrill-seeking β€” all of these consequences of trauma β€” hurt the person traumatized and their loved ones, and continue the trauma cycle. It is the trauma cycle that must be broken, and it can really only be broken by love. No guilt, shame, blame, fear, judgement. Just love of self and others, and truly practicing gentleness and compassion with self and others as we take the actions Dominic describes. 

We need communities of acceptance, strength, hope, love. I hope that is what ACEs Connection’s online communities can help facilitate. By being able to take the actions Dominic describes, there is no doubt others will be inspired to share the story,  and spark the movement in communities that didn’t know about these possibilities. 

Thank you Gail, for your comments reminding us to β€œput the oxygen masks on ourselves first” so to speak.  We can only do the work Dominic describes if we keep taking care of ourselves. 



Thank you, Dominic, for your awesome vision! Please take good care. We need you, your vision, and your energy for a long time to come. 

Peace!

C. 

Last edited by Carey Sipp

Dominic- thank you - I love your dream of a better world.  I do think that we are beginning to see the momentum of your dream coming true!  I hear wonderful examples of communities that are doing pieces of what you lay out above.

AND I want to suggest one thing that we need to remember to prioritize -- we need to take care of ourselves.  We need to model loving self care that demonstrates that caring for self and others is of the utmost importance...  its all about relationships - with ourselves and with each other.  if we don't remember this, I fear we risk burnout and a movement that cannot be sustained.  


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