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Practical Tools for Less Stress in Life: Listen to Your Body

 

One of the common statistics we hear often from the American Institute of Stress is, how many of our visits to a physician are stress related. Research says 75 to 90% of all the physical stuff we go to the doctor for is rooted in stress. We had already become numb to stress signals in pre-pandemic times. The constant rates of change and uncertainty have disconnected us even further from the signals our body is sending. Not listening, sets us up for doctor visits, costly testing, and dis-ease in the body.

This week on the Less Stress in Life podcast, Co-hosts Barb Fletcher and Deb Timmerman, reminded listeners of the need to pay attention to the physical signs of stress. Ts is important for everyone, by for those working in high stress positions, the reminder is critical. The pair used personal experience to drive home the point of how important it is to tune in and see stress as information.

Headaches and jaw pain drove Fletcher to the dentist 20 years ago. After chewing through three bite plates, and the threat of jaw surgery, she began to explore other options for managing that tension. Today, stress shows up differently in her body and she’s tuned-in to the messages, carefully listening to what her body tells her. Recently, she navigated end-of-life care for her mom during restrictions, and relates that stress showed up as headaches, exhaustion, and an unsettled stomach, even though she had been actively engaged in self-regulation practices.

Fletcher shared that one of the benefits of using self-regulation tools throughout this time was the number of positive experiences and relationships she was able to cultivate with professional staff and caregivers. She was able to have clear and meaningful communications and be there in a beautiful way for her mom. You can listen to the podcast episode here.

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AGREED!!! As a primary care doc, I completely agree with the 75-90% number. Since I became educated on PACEs science - and I'll include Polyvagal Theory as a crucial part of this, - my practice style has changed from spending time with patients talking about medication options, to now discussing what a person is doing to try to regulate their stress, and strategies for improving this. I also completely agree with the concept of people becoming numb to what is going on in their body - that is, poor self-awareness. This understandably happens in people whose ACEs affected brain development such that they have chronic stress hormone dysregulation; chronically being in a fight-or-flight state is uncomfortable, so a person adapts by becoming numb to the feelings. Also, whether or not a person has ACEs-induced stress hormone dysregulation, most of us in modern society have subconsciously become numb due to being overstimulated (think big city noise pollution, or having electronics in our face much of the day). The result of this numbing is a poor mind-body connection, such that we don't hear what our body is telling us until our physiology is at a 5 alarm fire state (high stress hormone state), and it takes longer to put out a 5 alarm fire (self-regulate). It is therefore crucial for each of us to regularly work on self-awareness (self-observation, meditation, yoga, PMRT can be ways to practice), while also regularly practicing a wide array of healthy self-soothing activities. This skill is foundational for good health and healing from past trauma.

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