Public commentator Marc Lamont Hill tweeted this today:
And it got me thinking, how do we measure that little's girl's ACE score? The things she experienced last night are not on the original ACE survey. Last night, with the developmental coping skills of a four year old, she:
-witnessed her father get shot, saw his shirt bloodied and watched him become unresponsive.
-saw a police officer, a member of a group that is everywhere, that she will see every day as she goes about her life, attack her father.
-understands that her father is dead and she can never be with him again.
-in the IMMEDIATE aftermath of witnessing her own father's murder, her mother is disappeared from her by people wearing the same uniform of the man that just killed her father.
-for hours she does not know if she will ever see her mother again. She wonders, "Who will take care of me?", which is a question children of this age agonize over more than people realize.
-her mother is distraught and certainly will experience depression, so in this child's own grief she is experiencing a depressed primary caregiver.
How do we measure her ACE score? What treatment will resolve this kind of trauma?
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