Do you think _____ counts as sexual abuse?
Given my work, this is an all too common question I get from all kinds of people -- clients, friends, family, journalists. I always appreciate when people ask this question, because it means they are trying to wrap their head around an experience, categorize it in some way that gives them an anchor or foundation to start a healing journey. I also know that sometimes this question is driven by fear or a need to dismiss or minimize something that has happened. Just the other day, I was asked,...