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Intergenerational Trauma and the Cycle of Child Abuse: A Personal Story

This picture tells part of my story. I didn't have an easy childhood (from an emotional and psychological perspective). Even though the things I've lived may have been common for that time, it was not by any means traditional, and it was certainly very hard for me to go through. And that led me to adopt with my first child a lot of the behaviors I was inflicted on by my mom. While I was concerned with protecting her from many of the situations that I was put through, I was repeating others...

Despair in the Southeast

During the last three weeks, I have had discussions with Jennifer Travieso of Peace4the Big Bend and Florida ACEs Connection, and Carey Sipp, ACEs Connection community facilitator for the Southeast U.S., about the situation in Florida post-hurricane. I feel drawn into further action as I have not heard about the degree of suffering on our news channels. It was shared with me there were 100,000 people homeless.

Cycle of violence among young Kenyan women: The link between childhood violence and adult physical intimate partner violence in a population-based survey

Gails Comments: See below a CDC study from Kenya. It is great to see CDC focusing on this need internationally. I would love to see CDC use the WHO international ACEs questionnaire to better understand links between childhood ACEs and many of the issues the CDC is trying to address internationally (ie., HIV/AIDs). A new CDC study shows that female victims of childhood violence are more likely to experience physical intimate partner violence as a young adult. Background While there is...

CFP: Lifting up lessons from on-the-ground work for healing, opportunity, and justice for girls

National Crittenton invites proposals for a national gathering focused on healing, opportunity, and justice for girls and gender nonconforming young people. The event will bring together young leaders, advocates, social service professionals, community-based organizations, and policymakers to strategize, share solutions, imagine new futures, and make connections between our spaces, issues, and approaches. We invite proposals for one-hour Innovation in Motion sessions. Sessions can be...

Flashbacks

Many people do not understand flashbacks and can be very scared and disoriented when they happen. Flashbacks can be visual (seeing), auditory (hearing), touch (feeling like someone is touching you when no one is there or something else that involves touch), tasting (you might have a bad taste in your mouth that was there when the trauma happened), or olfactory (smell). There are also somatic or body memories flashbacks. You can have a panic attack or be nauseous and this can be a flashback.

Thank you: For all you gave, and all you didn't

I didn’t feel grateful. I felt lots of things about my parents, but aside from fleeting moments of acknowledgment--mostly about the substantial amount they were currently doing to help me, as a single mom, to raise my daughter--I didn’t really feel grateful to them for what they did back then when I was a tender little person in their care. No, about that, I mostly felt angry. And filled with grief.

A Call to Children’s Residential Treatment Centers: Please, Please Do Your Own Trauma Work

The challenges of becoming an effective trauma-informed organization are considerable for sure. Taken as an opportunity, and not a burden, they present a unique platform for organizational learning, healing, and growth. Among so many other things, the efforts inure to the benefit of a milieu that becomes a sanctuary for healing and where little boys are not subject to blame for unintended treatment outcomes.

How Trauma Informed Therapy Saved my Life

From a young age, I was rebellious and stubborn. I come from a household where everything had to be perfect. I needed to make good grades, go to college, get married, and be successful. It’s not that I didn’t want all of this for myself, but I was more interested in escaping my emotions and having fun than I was in being responsible and successful. Drinking and using drugs was fun for me in the beginning, but at the end of my senior year of high school my drug addiction took a dark turn. I...

The Relentless School Nurse: From Silence to Voice

The voice of nursing in the public health emergency of gun violence must be amplified. There are approximately 3 million nurses in the US, yet, we still grapple with using our collective voice. We are a powerful force but do we maximize our strength and influence to its potential? Imagine a world where we did, the change we could generate would be transformational. I recently spoke at a large gathering of school nurses about this exact issue. When I read the evaluations, one stood out above...

The Holidays

I would like to share a few thoughts. Not everyone loves or looks forward to the holidays. Unfortunately, this can be a very triggering time to many people. A lot of people have had losses and other negative things happen during this time of year. Too many people feel isolated and alone. It can be helpful to be as compassionate to others as possible because everyone has a story. So many wounds are invisible and are then discounted by the general public. The holiday season is supposed to be...

Wrestling Ghosts is coming to Madison, Wisconsin!

We are so excited to announce a new community screening coming up of Wrestling Ghosts . Reach Dane, a fantastic organization in Madison, Wisconsin, will be hosting a screening of Wrestling Ghosts on January 7. We'll check back in before the New Year to let you all know about details with the screening! If you're in the area, please join us! Reach Dane provides high-quality early childhood services to over 1,000 children aged 0-5 in Dane Country through center based and home visitation...

Does Amazon music know more about us than we think? Providing ACEs awareness for a teen in a traffic accident.

So I pulled up my Amazon music app one day and there was a suggested song for me. The song started with "I thought I could take this to my grave. But instead I let it bury me." Wow if this isn't ACES in your faces.... The last example of ACEs awareness I provided was for a minor involved in a motor vehicle accident. As I was accessing my patient's present health for a sign off, I informed them that they may have an arrhythmia and they should follow up with their doctor. This freaked them out...

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