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Teen mom who couldn't find babysitter takes her 1-year-old toddler as prom date and they're adorable (upworthy.com)

 

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A teenage mom has received appreciation after taking her toddler as her date to the school prom. Melissa Mccabe, who is 16 now, became pregnant when she was 14 and gave birth to Arthur in November 2020. Mccabe, who lives in the U.K., describes her 1-year-old son as her "little blessing" and said she wanted him to be part of her prom. "When prom came around, no one could really have him and I wanted him to be a part of my prom day. I ordered him a suit and took him with me. All of the teachers were saying how gorgeous he looked," Mccabe told The Liverpool Echo. She said it was amazing to take him along and also have good pictures taken of them. "We don’t really have any nice up-to-date pictures of us. He loved it and he particularly loved all the snacks!” she said.

The video was shared by Mccabe on TikTok, garnering more than 1.6 million views and 227,000 likes. The reactions have been overwhelmingly supportive, said Mccabe. “I’ve had the odd couple of negative comments but I’ve also had messages of girls who are pregnant and are still in school and are worried about going back to school. I’ve mainly had loads of people being really supportive which is really nice because it's coming from people I don’t know,” she said. “Arthur is genuinely the most kind-hearted little boy. He loves everyone around him and he’s so spoiled,” she gushed.

Melissa recalls being surrounded by negativity and hurtful comments after she got pregnant during the lockdown. She gave birth at the age of 15. She is now more vocal and wants to break the stigma surrounding teen mothers.

She completed her GCSEs in June 2022 and is now set to study Health and Social Care at college in September. This is a huge deal for her personally, especially considering the number of people who told her she wouldn't be able to go back to school. “I am proud of myself," she said. "Especially considering Arthur only has one parent, I think I’ve done a good job."

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