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Learning To Care For My Newborn Was A Humbling Experience [npr.org]

 

Wen is an emergency physician and the health commissioner of Baltimore City.

Two months ago, my husband and I welcomed our baby son, Eli, into the world. Hearing his first cry and getting to hold him were the happiest moments of our lives. When he was placed on my chest and I could see and touch him, I felt like I knew him already. The doctors told us he was healthy and well. I couldn't wait to start our lives together as a family.

The night we arrived home, Eli wouldn't stop crying. Crying is normal in newborns, my husband and I assured each other. We held him and rocked him. Over the next 48 hours, we took shifts, staying up with Eli to try to soothe him through the near-nonstop crying. We called our friends for advice on how to deal with what we now labeled a "difficult baby."

Things went downhill quickly. Our pediatrician confirmed that he was noticeably jaundiced. In just three days, he had lost 15 percent of his body weight. Though I was feeding him every two hours, it turned out that Eli never had a good latch on my breasts, and I wasn't producing enough milk. We were told that he might need to be readmitted to the hospital.

[For more on this story by LEANA WEN, go to http://www.npr.org/sections/he...-humbling-experience]

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Becoming a parent is a humbling experience - so much more incredible and complicated than I ever imagined.  New parents need a circle of support - as often happens in other countries.  And, in the US we need maternity leave policies that support families.  Families that feel supported report feeling less stressed.  Reduced stress is linked to decreased risk for child abuse.  Lovingly caring for an infant that is awake and crying for nearly 48 hours is stressful!  let's find ways to support families and at the same time  reduce the risk for ACEs too. 

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