Silent No More

It’s dark and it’s painful – but abuse of missionary kids is rightly being brought into the light. The loyalty code that makes people hesitant to confront is being replaced by a Godly recognition of sin and the need for confrontation and repentance, the need for justice. Blogger’s note: "I wrote this as I do all my posts – with a deep breath and a prayer. The post is not intended to hurt further – rather to offer a word of hope. My great prayer is that it does that. For those who have been hurt, violated, abused as missionary kids there is a conference that will be held in April in Chicago." Marilyn “Abuse sent many MKs and their families on an ‘Unexpected Journey’. This conference will address actions and steps to help us move toward reclaiming our lives and breaking the silence.” MK Safety Net Conference in Chicago Unexpected Journey’April 19 – 21, 2013 http://communicatingacrossboundariesblog.com/2013/02/07/out-of-darkness-into-light/

2/7/138:18 AM

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Dave LockridgeMember

The subject of abuse and the effects of adverse childhood experiences are ignored in nearly all seminaries and Bible colleges. Churches are not equipped to understand or minister to people exposed to abuse or family dysfunction. Eight years ago I became aware of The ACE Study. It changed my ministry. Two years ago I started ACE Overcomers, a Bible-based program to help teens and adults overcome the effects of abuse, neglect and dysfunction. I speak in churches to inform both staff and congregations of the effects of adverse childhood experiences and how to minister to those affected. I wrote a series of 26 lessons that are appropriate for churches and recovery ministries. The book is being used in 6 states and by numerous rescue missions in their discipleship programs.

The question we must ask pastors is, "Do you speak ACEs?" If not, why not?

2/7/1312:23 PM

Dave LockridgeMember

I would love to be there but unfortunately am unable. Please keep me informed of your work.

2/8/131:38 PM

Catherine Thompson-DarnellMember

You are absolutely correct Dave. Churches, seminaries and colleges are completely unprepared to deal with this epidemic. I am glad to hear you are addressing it through your ministry. We need to raise an army! I am on the board of Speaking Truth in Love Ministries, which is committed to the same purpose. Just wondering if you will be able to attend the upcoming MKSafetyNet conference in Chicago this April. Great opportunity to brainstorm with many in the trenches on this issue.

2/8/1312:38 PM

Maria Luisa B. JohnstonMember

I am in the process of starting ACES women and youth groups at our church in California. Can you tell me more about your ACE OVERCOMERS.

5/21/138:03 AM

Dave LockridgeMember

Maria,

I have written a 145 page, 26 lesson, faith-based workbook entitled, Overcoming a Difficult Childhood. The curriculum is currently being used in 14 ministries in 4 states. The book is a combination of solid science and sound biblical principles.

University of California will be studying the effectiveness of the program beginning Sept of this year.

The curriculum is used in 7 recovery ministries. If you email me at aceovercomers@sbcglobal.net, I can forward you a sample of the lessons.

5/21/139:30 AM