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Love Your Enemies: What it Means & How to Do It (upliftconnect.com)

 

The mutual intimacy we share with our best friends is one of the greatest gifts of life, but it is not always given when we call someone a friend. Friendship need not even be mutual. How about organizations like Friends of Our Local Library? Friends of Elephants, and of other endangered species? Friendship allows for many degrees of closeness and takes many different forms. What it always implies is active support of those whom we befriend, engagement to help them reach their goals.

With enemies it is the exact opposite. After all, the very word ‘enemy’ comes from the Latin ‘inimicus’, and means simply ‘not a friend’. Of course, not everyone who is not a friend is therefore an enemy. Enemies are opponents – not opponents for play, as in sports or games, but in mutual opposition with us in matters of deep concern. Their goals are opposed to our own highest aspirations. Thus, out of conviction we must actively try to prevent them from reaching their goals. We can do this lovingly, or not – and thus we find ourselves head-on confronted with the possibility to love our enemies.

The Opposite of Love is Indifference

Love in every one of its forms is a lived ‘yes’ to belonging. I call it a ‘lived yes’, because the very way loving people live and act says loudly and clearly: “Yes, I affirm and respect you and I wish you well. As members of the cosmic family we belong together, and this belonging goes far deeper than anything that can ever divide us.” In an upside-down way, a ‘Yes’ to belonging is even present in hatred. While love says this yes joyfully and with fondness, hatred says it grudgingly with animosity, gall. Still, even one who hates acknowledges mutual belonging. Have there not been moments in your life when you couldn’t say whether you loved or hated someone close to your heart? This shows that hatred is not the opposite of love. The opposite of love (and of hatred) is indifference.

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Everyone of us on this planet is on a journey.  And we meet many people who believe it or not, are just as important to their friends and family as we are to ours.  We never know when we are going to meet these people who have different lifestyles and different experiences and different reactions to possibly the same things we have already gone through, or will go through soon. 

There are no enemies, just unknown people and life lessons to be learned.

We are the ones who label things to keep them in their places, like putting buttons or pennies in small cardboard boxes to go through when we want to be sure of our accumulations and our treasures...Let your treasures go free, give Good wishes and Peace to everyone you meet and stop keeping love and kindness locked up and languishing in the cobwebs of the attics in our minds...

MM

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