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Opening Up by Writing It Down: How Expressive Writing Improves Health and Eases Emotional Pain

 

In my last post, I highlighted a book Vincent Felitti mentioned at the CAMFT conference in Orange County. In the same talk, Dr. Felitti also recommended a form of therapeutic writing developed by James Pennebaker to help individuals uncover painful emotions and heal trauma. Pennebaker's book Opening Up by Writing It Down: How Expressive Writing Improves Health and Eases Emotional Pain details the why and how. The Pennebaker method has been referenced elsewhere on ACEs Connection; I thought it worthy of a refresher as plenty of science backs this approach.

From Amazon: Expressing painful emotions is hard--yet it can actually improve our mental and physical health. This lucid, compassionate book has introduced tens of thousands of readers to expressive writing, a simple yet powerful self-help technique grounded in scientific research. Leading experts James W. Pennebaker and Joshua M. Smyth describe how taking just a few minutes to write about deeply felt personal experiences or problems may help you:

*Heal old emotional wounds
*Feel a greater sense of well-being
*Decrease stress
*Improve relationships
*Boost your immune system

Vivid stories and examples yield compelling insights into secrets, self-disclosure, and the hidden price of silence. The third edition incorporates findings from hundreds of recent studies and includes practical exercises to help you try expressive writing for yourself. It features extensive new information on specific health benefits, as well as when the approach may not be helpful.

For more info: https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Writing-Down

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Jill:
I love this. I think this is a new version of an older work, is it not? I know his first version of Opening Up is from the 80's and I have that copy. I have written a white paper on this topic as well, how expressive writing eases symptoms of traumatic stress, which includes an overview of Pennebaker's work. I love free-writing, and sometimes do it alone, sometimes in community. When the community is safe, it's a BEAUTIFUL process because all are invited to share and are often prompted (and there's no requirement to share or go deeper or into topics doesn't wish to go). I have found it healing and transformative. But it's not easy to find it done well, with safety and by those who are comfortable dealing with what comes up without making it super awkward or clinical. Of course, what we all mean by what feels safe varies so much it can be a challenge. But, it's GREAT to understand HOW AND WHY it's so helpful and Pennebaker's research has done that well! The other book that is wonderful is Writing as a Way of Healing by Louise deSalvo and it has A LOT of her personal experiences as an author, a trauma survivor and a professor. I especially love learning from those who wear many hats and can speak to different sides of experiences. 

I love this community so much. Thanks for all you do to make it wonderful Laura & Morgan!
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Cheryl Miranda posted:

Yes, writing does help to a certain extent, it gets things out which one would not be able to share talking. However at the end of it, one still needs an enlightened witness to validate our experiences. For those of us who have suffered trauma, our sense of self is distorted or fragmented. However, only when our experiences are validated and our struggles acknowledged do we really heal - we feel whole.

We also need that enlightened witness when our ability to trust ourselves -- our judgment, our opinions, our emotions, our sense of self, and sometimes even our very senses -- has been undermined by the trauma we experienced.

Yes, writing does help to a certain extent, it gets things out which one would not be able to share talking. However at the end of it, one still needs an enlightened witness to validate our experiences. For those of us who have suffered trauma, our sense of self is distorted or fragmented. However, only when our experiences are validated and our struggles acknowledged do we really heal - we feel whole.

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