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The Books That Helped Me Transition from Trauma to Triumph: A Book Review Series – “Getting Past Your Past”

 

Book three in this blog series - Getting Past Your Past: Take Control of Your Life with Self-Help Techniques from EMDR Therapy by Francine Shapiro, PhD.

This book was recommended to me by my therapist in the midst of our four year, ninety-eight session, EMDR healing journey. For those unaware what EMDR is and how it helps, I will give you my trauma-warrior perspective, a view from the inside. EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. During most sessions, I would watch a light bar flash from left to right and back again or hold vibrating paddles in my hands, alternating left, right, left, right. This would result in my eyes naturally falling into a rhythmic back and forth as I was encouraged to revisit traumatic events from my youth.

What would arise during these sessions ranged from body memories, such as a feeling that someone was squeezing my left shoulder in a fierce grip, to flashbacks of images, such as seeing my mother's face from beneath water as she held me down, to sensations of a spirit presence in the therapist's office (I believe it was my deceased father trying to help me). Naturally, I would at times experience panic attack symptoms, and would almost always cry. Sometimes slow tears cascading down my cheeks. Other times full-on ugly crying, requiring a pause in the action.

 

(read more at Teri Wellbrock's Unicorn Shadows blog)

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Laura Pinhey posted:

Teri, this book has been on my list for a while (along with a blue million other books ...). Thanks for the reminder to nudge it toward the top of the list.

I'm an EMDR veteran too, and your descriptions of your experience with that therapy echo mine. I too can say I wouldn't be where I am today without it. I've undergone a few more sessions recently and it has not lost its power. It is also quite the trip. Every time I think, nothing is going to happen this session. And then ... boy, do things happen. Changes. Healing. Revelations. I recommend it to people whenever it seems appropriate (and when they're looking for a recommendation).

By the way, did you know that Francine Shapiro recently died? I've been meaning to post her NYT obituary on the main blog for a while. So many of us here owe her a debt of gratitude for her work.

I totally relate to your "along with a blue million other books" 

How wonderful you found EMDR and it helped you along your healing journey. And, wow, yes, those session where I would go in thinking everything was calm in my world then . . . BAM . . . I'd walk out thinking, "Where the hell did THAT come from?" But, so glad those aha moments would surface and I could process them and release that negative energy. Cathartic in so many ways. 

Thanks again for posting the obit for Dr. Shapiro. I visited the EMDR website and read up on her personal story. 

Peace,

Teri

Teri, this book has been on my list for a while (along with a blue million other books ...). Thanks for the reminder to nudge it toward the top of the list.

I'm an EMDR veteran too, and your descriptions of your experience with that therapy echo mine. I too can say I wouldn't be where I am today without it. I've undergone a few more sessions recently and it has not lost its power. It is also quite the trip. Every time I think, nothing is going to happen this session. And then ... boy, do things happen. Changes. Healing. Revelations. I recommend it to people whenever it seems appropriate (and when they're looking for a recommendation).

By the way, did you know that Francine Shapiro recently died? I've been meaning to post her NYT obituary on the main blog for a while. So many of us here owe her a debt of gratitude for her work.

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