One look at my tempting rose-colored lips and my limp fragile body was crushed against the wall. I felt the mirror shatter to pieces behind my head. A crooked smile lay across his face when he saw the terror in my deep blue eyes. Who said you could wear red lipstick? You belong to me! He had promised never hit me again for the last time. His iron hands strangled my neck, stealing my last breaths. He possessed my heart, but he wanted more. My last fading thought was…I could never untangle from his chains of deceit. (By: Danielle Kennedy)
According to SafeHorizon website, “Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of gender, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, income, or other factors.” We must not assume that domestic violence only happens to certain people who “ask for it,” domestic violence is wrong in any form towards anyone. Whether it’s a male perpretrator or a female perpretrator. The effects of domestic violence are damaging to the victims and involved witnesses, whether that is children, family or friends. SafeHorizon goes on to state “more than 3 million children witness domestic violence in their homes every year. Children who live in homes where there is domestic violence also suffer abuse or neglect at high rates (30% to 60%).” It is time for society to see that domestic violence affects more than the victims it also affects the children who then yearn to find some form of security. That’s where schools, after school programs, and community centers come into play. It is the responsibility of teachers, community staff, and administration to help provide a safe environment for children. Which can be as simple as being welcoming, spending time talking with the children, or giving a smile everyday. Engage with children, show them that they are valued and can achieve more in life. Adults take a moment before you walk into working with children and leave your stress at the down. Be present. Be empathic. Lead with compassion. And inspire the next generation. You never know what kind of home children are going home too.
If you are a victim or know someone who might be a victim call
Get Help: Call Our Free Anonymous Domestic Violence Hotline:800.621.HOPE (4673)
http://www.safehorizon.org/pag...stics--facts-52.html
A website “moving victims of violence from crisis to confidence.”
Written by: Danielle Kennedy, San Diego State University College student, working towards her BA in Child Family Development.
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