Looking For mental resources any suggestions

Hint, many advocates think that trauma itself explains the situation. That putting a diagnostic label like DID on things might confuse the issue. A lot of us try to find English terms to describe this stuff, or "human experience language." My friend calls this "trauma zombie mode," which seems pretty apt for me. 

A good list is here, plus all the blog posts on this site: http://www.madinamerica.com/resources/#links

Here is more: http://www.mentalhealthexcellence.org/

And this site is great: http://power2u.org/

Look for info on Marsha Linehan and DBT therapy, that was helpful to me.  

Since you know some of the emotions that are common to those with DID, or even those without DID who have suffered similar traumas, the best treatment that can be used by therapists OR the person with DID/PTSD or those in their circle, is Thought Field Therapy.  Using a combination of psychological approach (identifying and focusing on the traumatic thought or feeling) while tapping on a specific sequence of energy meridian points, the feeling recedes in the moment and over time. Visit rogercallahan.com, healingwithtft.com for detailed information. This therapy works, it works fast, has no side effects except feeling better, and the treated feeling state does not seem to recur, although similar feeling states may continue to occur until treated.

Hello Cole,
I have a website on trauma starting from conception and infancy, aka "attachment disorder" and "developmental trauma."  It starts 2-3 years before we ever had thoughts or words, so it disorganizes the entire brain while it's  developing.  It's at the root of all the traumatic conditions you listed.  Here are the links you need:

What is attachment disorder/developmental trauma:
http://attachmentdisorderheali...evelopmental-trauma/
http://attachmentdisorderheali...elopmental-trauma-2/
http://attachmentdisorderheali...attachment-disorder/
and Dr. Allan Schore's 9-28-14 Oslo speech "The Most Important Years" (real meat starts at minute 8) : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KW-S4cyEFCc

How to heal these fundamental traumas:
Attachment therapist locator: http://attachmentdisorderheali...herapists-directory/
Neurofeedback: http://attachmentdisorderhealing.com/neurofeedback/
EMDR: http://attachmentdisorderhealing.com/what-is-emdr/
Tapping (EFT): http://attachmentdisorderhealing.com/tapping-1/
Body work: http://attachmentdisorderheali...s/healing-body-work/

I have had tremendous success with Associative Awareness Technique (developed by Scott Musgrave).  It is a form of physical therapy that addresses all chronic pain issues from the standpoint of the autonomic nervous system.  It has helped me work through depression and anxiety as well.  I am 54 years old and have been searching for answers since I was 18.  It addresses the perpetuating factor of a hyper-vigilent nervous system.